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Divorce Support & Therapy for Children

Therapy for Divorce

Whether you are contemplating divorce, in the midst of a divorce, or managing the aftermath of your divorce, therapy can be a powerful resource to assist you throughout the various stages. Counseling can assist you in gaining clarity, managing the myriad of feelings you are experiencing such as grief, loss, and sadness, and help you adjust to your new life and thrive!

You may need assistance in deciding if divorce is the right course of action for you or your family, or perhaps, need a better understanding of how it will affect your children and how you can best support them through the process. I also assist families in positive co-parenting with their ex-partners and work directly with both parents to provide a healthy, positive relationship. I  provide tools and communication skills, to manage the challenges of co-parenting. With my expertise in divorce and years of experience, I set up my practice in Louisville to help families and individuals navigate the divorce process.

Tips for Divorcing Parents

1. Your children need simple explanations about the separation or divorce to help them understand that they were not the cause of it. Tell them in advance when it will happen, why it is happening, and what sort of visitation schedule is being set.

2. Expect children to show signs of grief following the separation or divorce, and let them know you understand. Though at first they may pretend not to care or believe what is happening, soon they will show emotions. Being upset is part of what they must go through.

3. Preschoolers generally feel guilty for causing the problems.  Young elementary-age children usually experience sadness.  Children over the age of eight or nine most often feel angry.

4. Your child will need to be reassured that you love him or her. Children sometimes believe that because parents stop loving each other, they may also someday stop loving the children.

5. Children of all ages may act babyish for a while, like baby-talking, bed wetting, having temper tantrums, clinging, and pretending to be ill. In general, they need extra support, not punishment, at this time, to regain their former self-confidence.

6. Many changes may occur that children can learn to accept when you explain things to them and continue to be lovingly attentive and firm: less money, less attention, more responsibilities, moving, new school, new friends, new work schedule, different rules and discipline styles in each home.

7. Don’t argue in front of your child.

8. Don’t criticize the other parent to your child. Usually, your child loves both of you.

9. Don’t use your child as a messenger to deliver information to the other parent.10.   Don’t use your child as a spy to find out what the other parent is doing.

10. Don’t use your child to get revenge on the other parent by denying child support or visitation.

11. Set up a regular visitation schedule. Children feel most secure when they know when and for how long the visitation will occur.

12. Even if you live out-of-state, regular contact by phone and/or letter is important to let the child know you will love and care about him or her.

13. Don’t feel you need to provide special toys, treats, or outings at each and every visit. Children need normal family time in both parents’ homes.

14. Continue to set rules and limits as you did in the past. Children need this consistency at each home.

15. Your child needs to know that your decision to separate or divorce is final. Children tend to fantasize for years after the separation that their parents will reunite.

You can contact Monica at Rocky Mountain Counseling here.

Children’s Bill of Rights

1. The right to be treated as important human beings, with unique feelings, ideas, and desires, and not as a source of argument between parents.
2. The right to a continuing relationship with both parents and the freedom to receive love from and express love for both.
3. The right to express love and affection for each parent without having to stifle that love because of fear of disapproval by the other parent.
4. The right to know that their parents’ decision to divorce is not their responsibility and that they will continue to be loved by both parents.
5. The right to continuing care and guidance from both parents.
6. The right to honest answers to questions about the changing family relationships.
7. The right to know and appreciate what is good in each parent without one parent degrading the other.
8. The right to have a relaxed, secure relationship with both parents without being placed in a position to manipulate one parent against the other.
9. The right to have both parents not undermine the other parent’s time with the children by suggesting tempting alternatives or by threatening to withhold parental contact as a punishment for the children’s wrongdoing.
10. The right to experience regular and consistent contact with both parents and to be protected from parental disputes or disagreements.


“We all have an unsuspected reserve of strength inside that emerges when life put us to the test” – Isabele Allende

"As a parent is going thru the ending of a marriage with divorce (or separation), the well being of their children is so important. Monica was wonderful in aiding my three children during our family's change in life. My children (ages 14,10 and 8) all greatly benefited from their sessions with Monica. Each felt she was a good listener but also full of advice and grounding knowledge for them as their parents divorced. She played card games to engage the younger children but also each had lots of good conversations with her. I asked my ten year old daughter to tell me her thoughts on Monica before I wrote this review. She said: "Dad, Monica was really good. She got the session going well by being talkative and direct and playing games to break the awkwardness but then really asked me to talk and participate. We talked about hard things I needed to discuss and I trusted her." In summary, I recommend Monica Ramunda without reservation if you need counseling for your children."

Monica Ramunda



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